For this week, I’m taking Free Tip Friday to a new realm. This advice donation is about helping parents with potty training tips from a 25-year veteran childcare provider. I’ve held onto this draft for a few years, waiting for the correct moment. I currently care for ‘potty-trainee’s’ who are blessed with parents who are doing a wonderful job in this child-rearing arena. I could not ask for better cooperation and so in no way is this article for them 🙂 But I can tell you we all have made mistakes in raising our children so take my wisdom at face value. I have no ulterior motive in sharing these tidbits. I hope you enjoy!
Please don’t leave your child alone during pottying. They can give you some of the most insightful moments of your child’s life. There’s something about bathrooms and conversations. Girls, just ask your sister. Besides, they shouldn’t be left alone anyway. What if the dreaded worst happened??
Do not give your child Polyethylene Glycol (petroleum based laxative) if you want them to have success ‘holding it’ til they can tell you they need to go. Click here (or look it up yourself) on the risks of using these from pretty reputable sources. I can testify first hand that there is a link to behavior and the use of these products. Before I go on and on, just do your homework. Your children are worth it! NONE of them can be replaced.
Children don’t Have to have a bm every day. Ask your health professional if you don’t believe me.
It certainly helps if they will tell you they need to go. Language skills or even hand signals are a good sign they are ready to work on potty training.
Its not mandatory tho. Just try actually watching them. Novel idea for certain parents with attachment to gadgets
Incentives help. Sometimes whatever works in desperation. Just wash hands before rewarding treats, please. Yours And Theirs.
Rushing can backfire. Once you commit to trying to potty train, don’t back down. Be patient and celebrates small victories
It takes everyone involved to work on it. Not just during the day at the child’s daycare even tho they are often there 10 hours of the day.
Alert!!They are onto you if you’re not really trying
Keep it light hearted and not too serious. In the words of mothers and grandmothers everywhere,You get further with sugar than with vinegar.
Just a few points to ponder for one of the most frustrating times for young parents.
And they get stored in these extra large ice cream containers. When it gets about half full, I turn to ways to upcycle them.
Watching & waiting
The hubby is pretty good at discovering bargains on ebay and found this Crayola Melt & Mold Factory at a decent price. It comes with a couple mold styles and looked like it would be a good way to occupy school-agers this summer.
Here is where I insert the facts. If you have only a few broken crayons, this is the way to go because this is how many (I’m being Very generous)you can melt in one sitting. And in one sitting I mean 45 minutes from beginning to end. I wasn’t very impressed with the results as there were air gaps in the molds in the end so you ended up with half-baked crayons. Not very sturdy for those with a firm grip.
Time to move on obviously.
My tried and true method that I have had a lot of success with are these little silicone bakers. They are great for practicing color sorting or color mixing that All ages greatly enjoy. I’m sure you can find many shapes in silicone bakeware or candy molds, but I just use the ones I already have.
My round crayons give new shape, color, and variety to the crayon bin.
Did I mention they are stackable? Quite the item to take outdoors as well. It’s pretty hard to lose these bright round disks, and even harder for them to get choked on. They make great paper weights when the wind is blowing (so you can never have too many).I have a few other ideas I’m planning with these gems for the future. I’ll have to let you know how they work out.
Hope this “Free Tip Friday” brightens the start to your weekend!
The last week I’ve been contemplating this Doors post. Thought about trying a theme with this subject.
Toy Doors abound at my home. But maybe I’ll save up for that one later.
Around here, I know of a few places that still have these sort of doors. But maybe that is too much for tender eyes? Or maybe some of you don’t get this? It’s your age I assure you. So you get the salt and pepper variety. Ask your parents/grandparents. Or Google.
And speaking of age, these doors have old hitchin’ posts leading up to the front to tie up your old mare. Love that the owners kept these intact all these years.
But in the end, there’s my boring ol’ door that leads home. It has seen more traffic in and out of it in the last 20 years of daycare than any of you can ever imagine. Over 150 children, their parents, grands, and greats, uncles, aunts,(some of them mine), both rich or poor and everything in between. Even a few pets to ‘show and tell’. Wouldn’t it be wondrous if all the doors we see could tell their story?
In your response, depict something or someone you admire. Bonus points if you share a paragraph or two on the source of your admiration.
So I’m taking this challenge and twisting it a bit. I sometimes feel admiration from the children and their families in my occupation as a child care provider. I get to stay home and hold babies and play all day.
Other times I can see it with their gifts and tokens of appreciation.
Yesterday was Teacher Appreciation Day and I received a little plant from Macoy. He’s the baby in first picture.
The best party of the day was when I heard it in Macoy’s words,
Way back when I first began my childcare career, one of the first things I learned to make for the children were homemade sheets. The ‘choosing of the sheet’ is like picking out your favorite toy when it comes to naptime. It has became a favorite weekly tradition and it has helped those who aren’t really too fond of lying down be more favorable towards the notion. I’m not immune to pulling all the stops. I’d rather win than be weary.
The timing of this A to Z Challenge worked out well as I have some sheets that are overly used and need replaced. Showing you a pictorial of how I make mine. The instructions are usable for any cot or mattress. You’ll just need to measure them first. Depth, Width and Length. My tutorial is basic and is just a guideline. Hope you’ll be inspired.
Photo collage 1
Photo collage 2
Blankets slip and slide and can bunch up in children’s faces.
Couldn’t resist sharing a little Everly Brothers this A to Z Wednesday!
I probably save too much stuff. But this is one fabric I really liked and couldn’t part with. So it is about to become a useful item. A bib. Something I need a lot of in my profession. And to be perfectly up front, I’ve even had requests for adult bibs. You just never know how large you’ll need to make one 😉 But for the sake of this post, it’s for the babies.
As you can see in the beginning tutorial above, it’s pretty much a straightforward idea.
I’m a stickler for ironing
There, much better.
I just wanted to show some minor improvements you’ll want to be aware of…Ironing is the best way to get a more desirable appearance.
Also be sure to clip those curves. Home Economics class 101 lesson right here.
Turn right sides out, press (again), pin opening closed and top stitch.
All you need now is to decide if you want Velcro or Snaps for your closure. I don’t recommend Buttons. It’s better for it to be able to break free from babies who are learning to pull (or throwing a tantrum). Your daily baby care dose 🙂
Just finished a table runner with some pastels. Went with the baby blue for the binding and machine quilted by stitch in the ditch fashion. Perfect for an outdoor spring setting or even a lap warmer for chilly evenings.
Some past runners
A bit blurry but colors still come through
Just messing around with stitches
and a crocheted one…
All this has me wondering how many still have dinner at the table these days? Do you most of the time or just on special occasions? Or only at restaurants? Would a ‘dressed-up’ table be more inviting to your everyday meals?
Growing up we always ate at the table and so has my own family. I highly recommend dinner together. I’m proud to say that when my grown children are home at lunch during the daycare mealtime, they grab a plate, sit with us at the table and converse. No cell phones. Just plugged-in to our voices. And the little ones take notice, believe me. Of course, Mom’s cookin’ might have a little to do with it.
Grandpa Hunter, Great Grandpa that is, was a rice patty farmer in Texas in this photo. He drove a team of 20 mules and I feel pride in the trait he passed down to his future generations. The trait of using your hands in farming was detrimental to survival. In a similar way, using my hands could be considered detrimental to my survival after a days work. I usually spend 11 hours a day, Monday thru Friday caring for 10 children ages newborn to 5 years. Being creative has been my way to relax and unwind when the day is behind me.
For my participation in the A to Z Challenge this year, I’m stepping away from the musical aspect of the last 2 years for a change. I have decided to blog about projects from the past and present. Some finished long ago and others are works in progress. I hope you’ll enjoy my “Creativity” theme and maybe you’ll be inspired to Make It Yourself.